What does Christmas mean to you? Is it sipping Eggnog or Hot Chocolate with your family or is it a Cruise to somewhere sunny?
This year I got bitten by the Grinch bug and was a little more focused on what I had to get done instead of spending time with those I care about. I was more preoccupied with the money I needed to spend and who all I needed to buy gifts for. I did eventually get my head out of my grinchness and remember the true meaning of the season.
I’m making a promise on my blog here and now. I want to be better. I want to put more focus into the time spent with others; not the amount spent.
Usually I think of Christmas as a time where it’s okay to go a little slower, it’s good to say hello and happy holidays to a stranger waiting in line, to give a few extra dollars or a card to someone who does something helpful for you.
In that spirit a friend and former colleague of mine makes cookies with her sister every year. They probably make thousands of cookies together. It can’t be easy but that’s what Christmas is all about; spending time with those you love. This year I was home for the holidays before the cookies were finished. She offered to give me some of what they had or she would mail them to me in Cincinnati. I said it wasn’t necessary but I appreciated it and happily gave her my address.
I honestly forgot about it and then today both my dogs went completely bat shit crazy at the mail man. As soon as I saw the return address on the box my heart just melted. That is the true definition of Christmas and the Christmas Spirit. It’s doing something for someone because they matter to you. When I opened my box and saw the holiday tin filled with cookies I was so happy and filled with joy.
I am making this an early New Years resolution; to keep the Christmas Spirit in my head throughout the year and to do more things for the people I love and care about. It’s not about the money spent or gifts bought but the gestures we do for one another and the time spent with them that matters most.
Who wants to join me and make this a year round goal and not just an after Thanksgiving through Christmas kinda thing?















































